~BERBALOI PENAT LELAH KU...~

بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَـٰنِ الرَّحِيم

by Wardina Safiyyah

Dear Mama, Ummi, Mum, Ibu, Bonda...

I have to share this with you... because i feel so happy and i feel that all

my penat lelah paid off...

I started to make my Amna to solat 5 times a day when she was 7, on her 7th

birthday...we had a talk...(check note lama) tapi preparation since 6 la...tapi

dari kecik memang selalu ikut2 la kami solat....she has'nt missed her solat

since. Walaupun lambat, tetap solat. I made sure of that - because the key is

SOLAT ni kalau tak tanam dari kecik memang LIAT nanti....But it is very

important to keep this in mind:-

1) kalau kita bagi dia tinggal WALAUPUN sekali nanti we are sending the wrong

signal - kena make sure - every waktu without fail, walaupun penat, ataupun lambat

2) Selalu kalau boleh solat together..mula2 memang kena solat together....kalau

tak ada rumah make sure an adult in the house pastikan anak kita solat. (hari tu Amna pergi her reading class, i asked her teacher to take her to the surau) -

lepas solat time tu lah peluk cium, senyum - i always kiss her at the head and

say "Barakallahufiha" Ya Allah make my Amna a good Muslim Ya Allah....make her never miss her solat Ya Allah.....kuat2 bagi dia dengar....

ps:- kalau kena amik cuti ambillah - bukan waktu exam je amik cuti - buatlah STEP ini, yakni melangkah ke alam 7 tahun dan tidak meninggalkan solat A BIG Thing! "mama amik cuti hari ni sebab nak pastikan yang adik solat 5 waktu sehari!"

3) Selalu cerita how IMPORTANT it is to solat..how Allah is watching us... how

we are good Muslims when we solat, how Allah loves us, Solat tu, untuk kita,bukan untuk Allah.....TAPI selalu jugak cerita yang akan ada orang TAK

solat...acknowledge the fact that sometimes we feel lazy to solat....itu semua kerja SETAN! Fight them off....!

I tell Amna that even some grown ups tak solat!

I tell Amna that....we have to be strong.. we have to tell ourselves we will

NEVER miss our solat.....

4) Awal2 subuh ni memang tak bangunkan, tapi as soon as dia bangun pagi, ill ask

her to solat straight away.(yes memang leceh..but we have to, and we have to do it with LOVE diselang seli dgn strictness)

5) kalau dia tinggal - DENGAN sengaja, i take the rotan and hit her on her tapak tangan slowly, just as a reminder.

After that i hug her and tell her i love her, and i just want her to remember - and guess what?? memang dia ingat!!! (3 kali baru, i think not bad, sampai satu hari dia terlambat solat, sebab keluar dan memang tak ingat, dia yang suruh rotan) But i tell her kalau TERLUPA atau TERTIDUR its ok...but kena solat terus bila bangun.

Macam ni ceritanya, i told Amna, kalau Ummi ambik Amna dari sekolah lambat, Amna

solat dulu Asar kat sekolah....tadi memang datang lambat...i was looking for

her..and guess what????

She was actually praying her Asar prayers...sorang je kat dalam surau tu....i

wanted to pengsan and cry...she did all by herself.... i pun told her how happy

and how proud i was of her...i tanya dia kenapa? dia kata "Amna ingat apa Ummi

cakap".....cair nya hatiku ini.

Apa lagi, Ummi ni peluk cium dia....and called nenek at Australia...now im

sharing with all of you!!! Because i want us to raise generation of good Muslims that are disciplined, smart, intelligent -that remembers Allah because the world so BADLY needs good QUALITY Muslims like this!!!

And the foundation is - to start them off right - solat at SEVEN! Yes just as

how Rasulullah asked us!

But the key to all this IS Mak Ayah KENA dan WAJIB solat dulu...anak ketam tak boleh diajar berjalan terus...fahamkan???

Rasulullah S.A.W. pernah bersabda yang bermaksud : "Setiap bayi yang

dilahirkan adalah dalam keadaan fitrah (suci bersih/Islam), maka ibu

bapanyalah (yang berperanan) menjadikannya (samada) Yahudi, Nasrani atau

Majusi".

tarbiyah yg terbaik insyaAllah melahirkan generasi yg terbaik..

melentur buluh biar dari rebungnya..mendidik dari kecil ibarat mengukir di

atas batu.renung2kan

"Wahai Tuhanku! Jadikanlah daku orang yang mendirikan sembahyang dan demikianlah juga zuriat keturunanku. Wahai Tuhan kami, perkenankanlah doa permohonanku. " (Surah Ibrahim:40)